[ if he needs some advice on not caring what other people think, the person responding to his message might be a good start. although she can't be any older than a teenager, her face is stern, and it's obvious that the elaborate braids hanging around her face are less for fun and more for tradition. and is that lizardskin covering her chest and shoulders (which is about all he can see, aside from her face and a bit of bland wall behind her)? why yes, yes it is.

she also has the 'strong urge to help' thing going on, even if she's only stating to feel settled herself. ]

Anyone who chooses not to speak with you because of the garments of your culture are not people worth your time. However, if they are cautious because some from the ship have caused problem, that is understandable. You are not a freak.