Nietzsche said to accept your choices and your acts as decisions that you've learned from. I can do the same with ones that I haven't made yet, if I understand the circumstances.
[Though he doesn't, and won't, sound pleased with the consequences he now has to deal with.]
[action] bother = bigger ^ because sometimes I fail at everything
[Though he doesn't, and won't, sound pleased with the consequences he now has to deal with.]
What happened while I was gone?